Ao sex bedeutung

Volkmar Sigusch, der Begründer und Doyen der deutschen Sexualmedizin, wird fast täglich um Rat gefragt: von deutschsprachigen und internationalen Medien, für die er einer der "deutungsmächtigsten" Zeitgenossen und begehrter Gesprächspartner ist, von Kolleginnen und Kollegen aus aller Welt, von Patientinnen und Patienten, Studierenden und Doktoranden. In der Form eines Lexikons bündelt dieses unkonventionelle "Sex-ABC" Siguschs Antworten auf häufig gestellte, aber auch abgelegene Fragen zu Sexualität, Lust und Begierde. Dabei bietet es eine kurzweilige Bestandsaufnahme des Wissens über den Sex und überraschende Einblicke in die aktuelle Welt der Neosexualitäten. Ein Vademekum für anspruchsvolle Zeitgenossinnen und Zeitgenossen - wahlweise für Jackentasche oder Nachttisch.

"Sigusch gilt als einer der international wichtigsten Sexualforscher." Der Spiegel

"Volkmar Sigusch - ein brillanter Essayist." Süddeutsche Zeitung

"Sigusch zeigt, wie der zwischen Mystifikation und Sensation eingeklemmten Sexualwissenschaft ein Weg ins Freie geöffnet werden kann." FAZ

Damit ihr schneller entscheiden könnt, ob euer Tinder-Boy ein Like verdient, entschlüsseln wir für euch die bekanntesten Abkürzungen der beliebten Dating-App.

Damit es beim ersten Kennenlernen nicht zu peinlichen Missverständnissen kommt, erklären wir, was die unzähligen Abkürzungen auf Tinder und Co. bedeuten. Denn die vielen Codes geben jede Menge Aufschluss darauf, was er tatsächlich sucht.

Mit diesen geheimen Codes werdet ihr zum Tinder-Profi:

1. "DTF"

Seid ihr auf der Suche nach Sex, ist dieser Tinder-Boy der Richtige für euch. Mit der Abkürzung "Down to Fuck" ist dein Match nämlich "offen für Sex".

2. "ASL"

Achtung, hier ist ein echter Tinder-Profi am Werk: Denn mit der Abkürzung "ASL" für "Age, Sex, Location" möchte jemand im Schnelldurchlauf dein Alter, dein Geschlecht und deinen Wohnort abchecken.

3. "420"

Diese Zahlenkombination ist keine Sexstellung aus dem Kamasutra, sondern ein Code für "Willst du mit mir...äh...kiffen?" Warum gerade diese Ziffernfolge? 1971 gab es eine Gruppe, die sich um 4.20 Uhr Nachmittags traf, um sich auf die Suche nach einer Marihuana-Farm zu machen. Stehen also die Nummern "420" in seinem Profil, solltest du gegen seinen Drogenkonsum nichts einzuwenden haben.

4. "Netflix and Chill"

Cool, er will mit euch auf dem Sofa chillen und eure Lieblingsserie bingen? Von wegen! "Netflix and Chill" ist eine einfache Umschreibung für "Lass uns abhängen und vögeln."

5. "LZB"

Auch wenn diese Spezies auf der Dating-App eher selten anzutreffen ist, gibt es sie: Die Tinder-Boys, die auf der Suche nach einer "Langzeit-Beziehung" sind.

6. "ONS"

Auch wenn wir euch diesen Code eigentlich nicht entschlüsseln brauchen, sucht der Großteil der Tinder-User auf der Dating-App nach einem klassischen "One-Night-Stand".

7. "KiWu"

Steht das in seinem Profil, hat dein Date ziemlich ernste und konkrete Absichten. Denn mit der Abkürzung für "Kinderwunsch", kann es deinem Dating-Kandidaten wohl nicht schnell genug gehen.

8. "FWB“"

Ihr sucht nichts Ernstes, wollt aber auch keine One-Night-Stands? Dann wäre die Abkürzung für "Friends with Benefits" etwas für euch. Hat dein Tinder-Match "FWB" in seinem Profil stehen, ist er neben Sex auch offen für so manche Freizeitaktivitäten.

9. "MBA"

Ihr freut euch, weil ihr denkt, euer Date hat einen Masterabschluss!? Upps, sorry! "MBA" steht nicht für Master of Business Administration, sondern für "married, but available" und bedeutet nichts anderes, als das dein Tinder-Boy ein fieser Fremdgänger ist und seine Ehefrau betrügt.

10. "AB"

Ist dein Dating-Kandidat ein "Absoluter Beginner" solltest du schnell checken, ob sich sein Anfänger-Dasein auf die Dating-App oder auf sein Sex-Life bezieht.

Allosexual people might identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, or of another sexual orientation.

That’s because “allosexual” doesn’t describe who you’re attracted to but rather the fact that you’re sexually attracted to someone at all.

What does it have to do with asexuality?

Asexual is a term that may hold a different meaning from one person to another. Therefore, it’s both an identity and umbrella term.

Identities on the asexual spectrum include:

• demisexual
• asexual
• graysexual

In general, if you identify as asexual (or as an “ace,” as some asexual individuals label themselves), you may experience little or no sexual attraction to others in varying degrees. But that doesn’t mean you never participate in or enjoy sexual activities with others.

What’s the point of having the term allosexuality?

It’s essential to distinguish allosexuality from asexuality. So often, allosexuality is assumed to be everyone’s experience — we’re all expected to experience sexual attraction at some time in our lives.

So people often hear about asexuality and think of the opposite as “normal.”

The problem is that labeling asexual people as “not normal” is part of their discrimination.

An asexual person’s sexual orientation isn’t a medical condition, deviance, or something that needs to be corrected — it’s part of who they are.

The term “allosexual” exists to avoid labeling one group as “asexual” and the other as “normal.”

This is also why the terms “heterosexuality” and “cisgender” exist. It’s vital to name opposite groups because it helps to distinguish them.

Allonormativity is a term that refers to the idea that all people are allosexual. In other words, all people experience sexual attraction.

Some examples of allonormativity include assuming that everybody:

• has crushes that they feel sexually attracted to
• has sex at some point in their lives
• wants sex

None of those assumptions are true.

Where did the term originate? 

According to LGBTA Wiki, the original word used to describe allosexuality was simply “sexual.”

But around 2011, people began campaigning against the use of “sexual” to describe people who aren’t asexual.

The terminology is still controversial, as this conversation on the AVEN forum shows.

What’s the difference between allosexual and sexual?

People campaigned against the use of “sexual” to describe people who aren’t asexual for the following reasons:

• Confusion. The words “sexual” and “sexuality” already mean something confusing. For example, when discussing allosexuality, we’d have to use “sexuality,” a word commonly used to mean something related but different.
• Discomfort. Calling someone “sexual” could imply that you see someone as a sex object or otherwise sexualize the person. This implication could be uncomfortable for people who’ve experienced sexual assault, who are intentionally chaste, and people who are stereotyped as hypersexual by society.
• Conflating sexual activity with sexual orientation. “Sexual” could imply that someone is sexually active. But being allosexual and being sexually active are two different things. Some allosexual people don’t have sex, and some asexual people do have sex. The label should concern your orientation, not your behavior.

All that said, some people still use the word “sexual” to mean “allosexual.”

What’s the difference between allosexual and non-asexual?

People do still use the term “non-asexual.” But this excludes graysexual people.

As mentioned earlier, graysexual people seldom experience sexual attraction or very little intensity. As a result, some graysexual people consider themselves a part of the asexual community, while others don’t.

So, the word “non-asexual” suggests that it applies to everyone who isn’t asexual — including graysexual people who don’t identify as asexual.

The word “allosexual” suggests that we’re talking about everyone who isn’t graysexual or asexual.

Why might someone opt to use one term over the others?

As mentioned, many people don’t like the terms “non-asexual” or “sexual.” But other people dislike the term “allosexual,” too.

Some reasons why people don’t like the term “allosexual” include:

• “Allo-” means “other,” which is not the opposite of “a-.”
• It’s a potentially confusing term, while “non-asexual” is more obvious.
• They don’t like the way it sounds.

None of the suggested terms seem to be accepted by everyone, and it remains a controversial topic today.

What does being allosexual look like in practice?

Being allosexual means that you experience sexual attraction that could look like:

• having sexual crushes on people
• having sexual fantasies about specific people
• deciding to enter a sexual, or even romantic, relationship based at least partly on your sexual feelings for them
• choosing who you have sex with based on who you’re sexually attracted to
• understanding and relating to people who describe their feelings of sexual attraction

You might not experience all of these examples, even if you’re allosexual.

Likewise, some asexual people might identify with some of these experiences. For example, some asexual people do have and enjoy sex.

Is there a romantic counterpart to this? (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});

Yes! Alloromantic people are the opposite of aromantic people.

Alloromantic people experience romantic attraction, while aromantic people experience little to no romantic interest.

How do you know if allosexual is the right term for you?

There’s no test to determine whether you’re asexual, graysexual, or allosexual.

But you may find it helpful to ask yourself:

• How often do I experience sexual attraction?
• How intense is this sexual attraction?
• Do I need to feel sexually attracted to someone in order to want a relationship with them?
• How do I enjoy showing affection? Does sex factor into it?
• How do I feel about sex?
• Do I feel pressured into wanting and enjoying sex, or do I genuinely want and enjoy it?
• Would I feel comfortable identifying as asexual, graysexual, or allosexual? Why or why not?

There are no “right” answers to the above questions, so it’s just to help you think about your identity and feelings.

Every allosexual person is different, and their answers to the above might be different.

What happens if you no longer identify as allosexual?

That’s OK! Many people feel that their sexual orientation shifts over time.

You might identify as allosexual now and asexual or graysexual later. Likewise, you might have identified as asexual or graysexual in the past, and now you feel that you’re allosexual.

This doesn’t mean you’re wrong, confused, or broken — it’s a shared experience that many people have.

The 2017 & 2018 Asexual Census found that individuals who currently or previously identified with a non-ace identity identified the majority (62.4 percent) as straight, 40.5 percent as bisexual, 28.6 percent as gay or lesbian, and a quarter as pansexual. Under half (41.9 percent) currently or previously identified as queer.

Where can you learn more?

You can learn more about graysexuality and asexuality online or at local in-person meetups. If you have a local LGBTQIA+ community, you might be able to connect with other people there.

You can also learn more from:

• Asexual Visibility and Education Network (AVEN): a wiki site where you can search the definitions of different words relating to sexuality and orientation
• LGBTQIA+Wiki: webpagesimilar to the AVEN wiki
• online forums: like the AVEN forum and the r/asexuality subreddit
• online platforms: Facebook groups and other online platforms for asexual and graysexual people

Sian Ferguson is a freelance health and cannabis writer based in Cape Town, South Africa. She’s passionate about empowering readers to take care of their mental and physical health through science-based, empathetically delivered information.

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